In a world that equates constant progress with achievement, stepping back in your career can feel like failure. But bestselling author and leadership expert Simon Sinek believes the opposite can be true. Speaking on his podcast A Bit of Optimism, Sinek said that slowing down or even taking a pay cut may sometimes be the most strategic move toward long-term growth. “A lot of people think forward momentum is the only way to advance. The reality is it’s more like a slingshot: you have to pull back before you launch forward,” he explained.
The power of detours
Sinek argues that fulfillment does not always come from climbing the ladder in a straight line. Instead, it emerges from learning, experimenting with roles that bring joy, and even rebounding from decisions that fail. For students and young professionals, however, the pressure of competition often makes them hesitant to take a different path.
“The idea of falling behind makes it seem like there’s a finish line,” Sinek said. “And that’s completely wrong.”
A real-life example
Arthur Brooks, happiness expert and Harvard professor who joined Sinek in the podcast, shared his own unconventional path. At 19, he dropped out of college to tour as a French horn player. Years later, when the career proved unsustainable, he returned to academia in his late 20s—a move that ultimately reshaped his life. “Every 10 years, I strip my life back to the bolts. I start all over,” Brooks had earlier told Harvard Magazine.
Why perception holds people back
According to Sinek, the biggest hurdle is not financial sacrifice alone but the fear of judgment. Many avoid career shifts because they worry about how others will view them. Yet, the willingness to reassess and accept temporary setbacks is crucial. “If you’re too paralyzed by fear and unwilling to go backwards in terms of money, power or prestige, you’re stuck,” he cautioned.
The power of detours
Sinek argues that fulfillment does not always come from climbing the ladder in a straight line. Instead, it emerges from learning, experimenting with roles that bring joy, and even rebounding from decisions that fail. For students and young professionals, however, the pressure of competition often makes them hesitant to take a different path.
“The idea of falling behind makes it seem like there’s a finish line,” Sinek said. “And that’s completely wrong.”
A real-life example
Arthur Brooks, happiness expert and Harvard professor who joined Sinek in the podcast, shared his own unconventional path. At 19, he dropped out of college to tour as a French horn player. Years later, when the career proved unsustainable, he returned to academia in his late 20s—a move that ultimately reshaped his life. “Every 10 years, I strip my life back to the bolts. I start all over,” Brooks had earlier told Harvard Magazine.
Why perception holds people back
According to Sinek, the biggest hurdle is not financial sacrifice alone but the fear of judgment. Many avoid career shifts because they worry about how others will view them. Yet, the willingness to reassess and accept temporary setbacks is crucial. “If you’re too paralyzed by fear and unwilling to go backwards in terms of money, power or prestige, you’re stuck,” he cautioned.
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